I think it's a part of human nature to want to avoid hurting others' feelings, or to allow people to go on believing the best about a situation. In The Office, two characters, Andy and Angela, are engaged. Andy clearly has strong feelings for Angela, so when the rest of The Office cast find out that Angela hooked up with her co-worker, Dwight, nobody wants to tell Andy. They know that it would devastate him, so everybody just decides to hide the truth.
Making this connection helped me better understand Marlow's motivation to cover up the truth. Before, I couldn't fully grasp the reason behind Marlow's choice, but, by thinking about a more modern, relatable example of a similar situation, I can now comprehend the idea. Sometimes, in the long run, the truth will hurt much more than a lie. So it all comes down to the question of what's more important: being honest or making someone feel better.

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